Thursday, March 13, 2008

Learn to say NO!

Recently I witnessed a scene at one of the top most companies in the United Kingdom (yeah u heard it right!).


Well, during the first week of stay in an alian country every human being will think about their home country. And then they will start comparing the country with their own country. Am a normal human being, so I should do the
comparision too. Here I go...

The company has quite big shopping malls in its campus which closes around 6 pm everyday. I was standing near one of the malls. It was about 6.05 pm. I saw a person rushing from one corner of the campus towards this mall. When he came near the mall, I noticed that he was none other than the CEO of the company. He rushed towards the mall and asked for something. The receptionist politely replied 'I'm sorry. We are closed!'. He immediately smiled and replied, 'Oh It's alright. I will pick it tomorrow.' I was spellbound.

If this had happened back in India the store operator/receptionist would have led the CEO inside the mall and let him pick the things. But, will this response be the same if it was a normal employee? Probably it could be their way or showing their respect towards the big shot or could it be that they cannot say NO? Or it could be the fear that 'oh my will this big shot do something if I reject him?'

Probably, It is so because over here (abroad) people are more time oriented. If the receptist says YES and allows the person to pick the things, then probably these might happen:
  • Might miss her bus/train back home
  • Might be late for her evening appointments
  • Might exceed her shift
  • Might be that her KRA says so ;-P

So they clearly send out a message, we are closed after 6. If you want to pick up something, you can come in before six. It is not that they are being harsh (as people think). They are being oriented.

I understand and am aware that there are many people who are strong enough to say NO to what they thing is wrong or whatever! But this post is for the one's, who are reluctant to say NO. Yes, that includes me too :)

Just like how these people have to learn a lot from us, let's also agree that we have to learn a lot from them.

Saturday, March 01, 2008

Happy Birthday!

How many of you have wished your mom on UR birthday?

Well, it is said that delivery is a re-birth for a women..

Friday, December 28, 2007

Eyes O Beautiful Eyes..

Have you ever looked into your own eyes the moment you woke up? Nah? Try it and you will realise how beautiful your eyes are.

Every morning, the moment I wake up I go to the mirror and look at my eyes (only my eyes not my face ;-P).. You have to be near to the mirror that your eyes can see only your eyes. And trust me, they will look so much at peace that it keeps me wondering if even Osama Bin Laden has so much peace in his eyes every morning. You will find a wet layer on your eyes. A layer which has protected your eyes through out the night. You can see that the 'part' which helps you see is beautiful... A famous proverb says, 'Face is the index of mind'. I add to it 'Eyes are the index of face' :-)

Thursday, November 01, 2007

Worries...

Each day of our life has atleast one pinch of 'worry' sandwiched with other events. Through out the day, a secret corner of our heart keeps thinking about the 'worry'. Cant help it; that's the way life functions and we are a puppet in the hands of life. Probably that's y 'they' say, Smile amidst your worries :-).