Toss a coin to know what you desire!!

Sometimes... only when you loose something, you realize it was the one you wanted the most! When the coin is up in the air, your heart tells you if you want head or tail!!

Analyse....

Sometimes we need to analyse and find out questions for certain episodes of our life, to help find answers [Read 'Clarity'] to it.

Live this moment!

Happening around hint that once we get out of our house, there is no guarantee that we would come back. So live as if it would be your last day on earth.. Love as if you would never have another day to express….. In short, LIVE THIS MOMENT.

Belief..

Do not believe anybody. A person, who says that he/she is ready to die for you, is abandoning you.. cause after his/her absence you would only suffer.

Passing clouds..

This too shall pass.. but THIS can be terrible!!

Sweet as a candy.. and bitter as a wormwood

Beware of people who are always sweet to you. They are sweetly (read slyly) getting THEIR things done.

Shut Up!

At times, this is strange.. I think too much about others and become worried. I have wonderful family.. and have every reason to be happy always! But I spoil my happiness and peace by thinking about things which dont deserve to be thought of. About what people will think, what they will say. Why? When will I stop doing this? Sometimes I just want to tell these people - who try to boss over me - I am what I am. And it is my life. You don’t try to rule over it. But then I end up thinking why should I hurt them. What I fail to realize then is that I am just trying to be what they are to me. I want to come out of this shell and be me. Not caring a bit about anything else other than my loved ones. Yes - To all those so-called-friends, acquaintances, and colleagues. - SHUT UP.
I am rude. So be it.

Our First Letter to Our Jaan :-)

Are you a boy or girl?
You have kept us guessing so long.
We don’t wish to give up.
We are waiting for you,
Waiting for the moment when you will arrive to fill our hearts and hands.
Waiting to hear your first cry.
Waiting for your first touch.
Waiting for your first look.
Waiting for everything related to you.

When I felt you move, I used to get startled.
Now I enjoy you movement.
When I felt pain, I used to worry if you are OK.
Now I know you are definitely doing good.
When I see a baby, I wonder how you will look.
When I see you in scans, I wonder what you are thinking.
I wonder what you are doing.
I wonder if you are comfortable.
I prayer that you should be.

As we wait for you, we are thinking about your arrival.
Thinking about the moment when we will see and hold you.
Thinking about a special name for you.
We are waiting for you.. Our Jaan.

Another one..

This struck me today..

"Sometimes.. u just have to keep quiet, absorb and again keep quiet.."
:-D

Life is like a roller-coster

Life is like a roller-coaster… You are all excited at the heights.. and even before you realize, you fall.. but at the end of all.. there are two things which makes you live.. experience and hope.

Happiness...

I am noticing that I visit my blog mostly when am down, terrible upset or irritated. Right now, it is a mix of the three.

There are lot of mails, gyans, and messages on how to be happy in life. But I dont see anybody following the path to happiness nor do I follow it. Everything is cyclic. If am happy people around me will be happy. If they are not, that reflects on me.

What makes one unhappy?
faliure?
jealousy?
misunderstanding?
dissatisfaction?
discontent?
disregarding?
ignorance?

The list is on and on. Few of the reasons are due to our beliefs. Rest is cause of the people around us. When I was listing the above mentioned reason, I was wondering what could lead to these. Ideally, an ignorance or disregarding could lead to misunderstanding, or the other yround.

There are people who ignore the cause of unhappiness, and try to be happy. Some people move to their own world when something hurts them. These people either keep to themselves or go around speaking philosophies.

There would also be instances when we will actually be upset but we will not know the reason behind it or we will fool ourself by hiding/not thinking about the reason.

On such instances, I get reminded of an advice from one of my teachers. And I follow her words which actually ends up making me feel better.

If you are upset over something and you dont know the reason, then you should sit quietly and think about all that had happened to you and around you from morning. One by one all the incidents will flash in your mind. And when u come accross the incident that has been troubling you, your heart actually becomes heavy. This is so damm true! Once you get hold of this reason, you should find out what exactly affected your mood - which moment caused you more pain. Once you find that, you can easily find a solution to it. If you are not finding a solution, then it means the problem is linked to someother person. Do not wait for a second. Talk to the concerned person.

It does wonders! I am yet to improve on the second part of the technique i.e., talking to the concerned person. Cause I tend to supress my worries within myself. I have changed quite a lot. I can see I am reaching there!

Happy B'day

My dad's friend is turning 60 today... a poem (lolz i call it so) for him :)

It is your birthday,
Not like any other day..

It is indeed a special day..
Cause it is your 60th birthday..

Don’t let the moment flyaway..
Spend the day like a Sunday..

Hope you put down your ashtray.. :D
Cause it is your birthday..

Let the celebration not have any hindrance..
Celebrate it with all the joyance..

It is your birthday,
Let’s celebrate it our way!!!

A post for friends ;-P

Well, one of my friends in expecting. We are sending her bangles and a card for her seemandham. To make the card personalized I was asked to write something onthe card. And lo... this is what I came up with.. I dedicate the below to my friends.

The most precious moment has just moments to arrive.
And during this moment hope you are having lots of endive.

It is known to the world that both of you are in the peak of excitement.
Miles away from you, we feel a pinch of that excitement.
And ambi, AP is using lots of ointment ;-P

Miles away from you, we feel your happiness.
And ambi, Pavi has still not changed her blitheness ;-P

Miles away from you, we feel your thrills.
And ambi, Brin is always on her shrills ;-P

Miles away from you, we feel your exhilaration.
And ambi, Subu still retains her gumption ;-P

Miles away from here, when you built a Pueblo,
Ambi, Sugu still continues with the word buffalo…

Miles away from here, when you have trouble to lissome..
Ambi, I am breaking my head on this poem…


Well.. jokes apart.. As Director and Producer (we know who’s who ;-P), you have done your part well. If nominated, you would have won the Oscars without a scar.
Now, it is time for the movie to launch.

All the very best for the function and for the launch!!!

Cycle..

Past is what I cherish cause it has made me what I am today..
Present is what I love cause it will give me beautiful memories..
Future is what I wait for cause it is gonna give me surprises..

Things what I love is what I cherish and wait for more.. So it is indeed a beautiful cycle..

Happy Birthday!

How many of you have wished your mom on UR birthday?

Well, it is said that delivery is a re-birth for a women..

Eyes O Beautiful Eyes..

Have you ever looked into your own eyes the moment you woke up? Nah? Try it and you will realise how beautiful your eyes are.

Every morning, the moment I wake up I go to the mirror and look at my eyes (only my eyes not my face ;-P).. You have to be near to the mirror that your eyes can see only your eyes. And trust me, they will look so much at peace that it keeps me wondering if even Osama Bin Laden has so much peace in his eyes every morning. You will find a wet layer on your eyes. A layer which has protected your eyes through out the night. You can see that the 'part' which helps you see is beautiful... A famous proverb says, 'Face is the index of mind'. I add to it 'Eyes are the index of face' :-)

Worries...

Each day of our life has atleast one pinch of 'worry' sandwiched with other events. Through out the day, a secret corner of our heart keeps thinking about the 'worry'. Cant help it; that's the way life functions and we are a puppet in the hands of life. Probably that's y 'they' say, Smile amidst your worries :-).

Being Happy...

Seems it is long since I wrote any quotes. Something struck me today, which resulted in the below :-)

Being happy doesn’t always mean you are happy for yourself; it can also mean that you are happy for someone.

Hurt...

When people tend to hurt you, follow these steps.
1. Look at them (i.e., perfect eye contact)
2. Smile and think 'oh buddy! you are loosing a friend for others'

3. Ignore them and move on with life.

Because ppl who love you wont hurt you, and ppl who hurt dont love you much.

:-)

Life...

Actually you should be relaxed when you are unhappy, cause any moment you could turn happy..But when you are happy you are in danger zone, cause any moment you could be unhappy!

I know the above lines don't make sense.. hehe.. but dont know why I wrote those!